Savvan cants

Shaving your privates is part of the middleaged subculture. That’s the truth. Men do it, too.

Well, it’s a new one on me, I’ve never encountered it before, and if anyone thinks I’m ever going to shave my man’s area…

Do you not think that by doing it, we’re agreeing to the demands of porn? As if that’s what we must look like?

For once Looby I feel I’m ahead of the game in something on the seedier side of life…

As Exile says, somewhere in the last 10, 20, 30 years this became de rigueur for those over a certain age who aren’t like those of us luckily enough to be blessed with long term relationships.

I was talking to a close female friend who had split up with her boyfriend of a few months recently. I asked her any regrets about that - “No” she replied. Then scratched her crotch and said “except being back on the market means I’m back to having to shave every day again"…

I’m like you I don’t understand why a mature woman wants those bits to look like a prepubescent girl… that is lost on me on so many levels… like most of your blog! haha

Well, if women feel they have to do that then it’s a sad day in the pornification of our love lives. It’s horrible. It looks weird, and it makes stroking a lovely part of a woman’s body feel like getting rasped by wire wool. What a ridiculous norm!

I have to say I love my wife having that hair there. I love the feel to my fingers and the look of it as she gets wetter and wetter. When I go down do her the feel of that against my lips is one of the best feelings

Exactly, this is one of the point of it. It’s soft and lovely, because of the cunty hairiness. Fucking hell, I am now officially old-fashioned, for not wanting a denuded cunt and feeling stubble against my lips. In fact, if me and Donna do get another date together, I’m going to ask if she could be kind enough to let it grow for a bit before.

I’m going to be devil’s advocate: A shaved pussy is softer and you won’t eat hair -this is what I’ve been told when indulging my partners with my hairless charms-.

Oh come on guys, it’s not bad to have a little fun now and then. Just for a change.

It’s not softer! Softness comes from stroking those lovely wet hairs over her soft flesh, not from scraping a layer of your epidermis off your fingers and getting a razor burn over a mound of stubble.

Also, it looks very unpleasant and unnatural, it’s a dick softener. I don’t see how a woman shaving her cunt can be seen as a treat. I think it’s all about the influence of porn. I like porn but this is one terribly bad result of it.

Is it possible that your firewall, antispam or antivirus won’t let me write the words p*ssy and p*rn? I’ve been trying to send my reply for the last 10 minutes without results! :(

Pussy? Why are you talking about cats? :)

Sorry – I keep trying to turn this damn thing off and it keeps coming back.

I’m curious to know what you’re trying to say though :)

No worries, Looby. Asterisks work.

Definitely, it must be an influence of porn. If not for men’s special requests, women wouldn’t shave their pussies. [Excuse the American language, people–Ed.]

My guess is that she just thought you would like that and went to the pussy-shaving ordeal only to please you. If I were you, I would feel flattered. ;)

Well, if that’s the case then that’s a well-intentioned thing to do. But it misses my visual and tactile preferences by a mile.

(I’m going to use my Executive powers to remove the asterisks in your comment. Even if you are using some strange words :) )

What? I thought p*ssy and p*rn were Burdish words …

PS.- Maybe it’s this Sandwichian dialect I speak. ;)

“Porn” is OK but “pussy” sounds very American.

So if I were in Burdishland and I were talking about my *points at her ***** down there* I would be supposedly talking about my cat? :))

I’m not sure in what context you’d be doing that :)

When I meet Mr. Clooney and Mr. Pitt, for instance.

They won’t think I’m talking about my cat.