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looby [Member] in response to: Head banging

Tue, 22 Apr 2014 19:03:47 +0000

I’ve texted you about that former and I am sorry we handled it a bit selfishly.

The Joy of Bex [Visitor] in response to: Head banging

Tue, 22 Apr 2014 11:02:56 +0000

The lack of party was entirely Alex’s fault for having no friends and not liking people enough to have anyone to invite!

I didn’t take it personally. The Manchester thing was more annoying, but that had nothing to do with you. That was entirely Trina and Tess’s fault.

looby [Member] in response to: Head banging

Fri, 04 Apr 2014 19:20:48 +0000

I know GB, but what would be best? Tell her we can’t be together because she loves me (so she says—it seems like an enhanced form of friendship to me), and I don’t love her? Or just carry on as we are, both aware of that inequality of feeling but ignoring that and enjoying what we like doing together?

Your comment has been ringing around my head this week though. I just can’t think of a way round it for someone like me, who is not boyfriend material for anyone, but who might be quite fun to be with for a while. And she’s making the same cost-benefit analysis as I am. If she was truly upset, she’d leave me. It’s a trade-off for both of us.

admin [Member] in response to: Head banging

Wed, 02 Apr 2014 00:21:03 +0000

“You always know right at the beginning the reason you’ll split up.”

Yes. Absolutely. One of my essential emotional survival tools has been to envision the ending at the beginning.

Gossamer Beynon [Visitor] in response to: Head banging

Tue, 01 Apr 2014 11:11:51 +0000

Whilst you may have been honest about what you want from Trina, I still can’t help but feel sorry for her. The imbalance in it all makes my toes curl somehow.

looby [Member] in response to: Head banging

Mon, 31 Mar 2014 10:58:01 +0000

I hope I’ve been straight with Trina from day one. I don’t find it “great sport". On the contrary, I find it a drag to be constantly having to deal with these dramas, instead of us simply having a good time together. But I see it as a form of work, a payment I have to make in order to do the enjoyable things.

Re the party–it wasn’t personal, it just arose at the back end of a hectic week with not enough sleep.

Blogging whilst on holiday? No way–it wouldn’t be a holiday otherwise. The computer’s staying at home, and my phone–which hasn’t got internet on it–will be OFF, except when we need to ring for taxis, etc.

Exile on Pain Street [Visitor] in response to: Head banging

Mon, 31 Mar 2014 10:36:36 +0000

Boy. I know who’s holding all the cards in this relationship. Are you sure you didn’t push her buttons like that on purpose? Some people think that’s great sport.

That’s sad that everybody bailed out on the party. I hope they didn’t take it personally. I’d be a wreck for a couple weeks because that’s my insecurity. Are you going to be able to post from France?Hope so.

@ TSB: Oh, please! We’ve been telling him that for months!

looby [Member] in response to: Head banging

Mon, 31 Mar 2014 08:53:27 +0000

I think we’ll become friends with benefits in time, while Trina will continue to think of it as a “relationship".