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			<title>looby [Member] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2014 22:57:58 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><span class="login user nowrap" rel="bubbletip_user_1"><span class="identity_link_username">looby</span></span> <span class="bUser-member-tag">[Member]</span></dc:creator>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Bugger &amp;#8211; so you were just getting to know him when he pegged it. Terrible timing these deaths!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Why do people still vote Tory after what they&amp;#8217;ve done? We&amp;#8217;ve got a Tory MP here. No idea why.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bugger &#8211; so you were just getting to know him when he pegged it. Terrible timing these deaths!</p>

<p>Why do people still vote Tory after what they&#8217;ve done? We&#8217;ve got a Tory MP here. No idea why.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title> furtheron [Visitor] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2014 16:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><span class="user anonymous" rel="bubbletip_comment_3467">furtheron</span> <span class="bUser-anonymous-tag">[Visitor]</span></dc:creator>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Sorry to hear about your loss.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If my Dad had died a year earlier I&amp;#8217;d have said similar to you that I wasn&amp;#8217;t close to him.  I had the advantage of being the youngest of his offspring.  This meant that I was the only one still at home when Dad retired (technically he retired early - truth is after 42 years in a job he loved and that frankly defined him as a useful human being Mrs Thatcher (bitch!) and John Nott unceremoniously kicked him and 10,000 other poor buggers on the scrap heap and made my home town suffer 25 years of deprivation).  His enforced unemployment coincided with a chunk of my last year at college and whilst I listened to ELP, Zep, Rush et al on my stereo in my room and desperately tried to revise enough to get my HND in Computer Studies I actually got to know Dad a fair bit.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Sadder then that just as I got to begin to know him and even admire him a bit a heart attack a couple of days after a hip replacement op that would have given him a new lease of life took him away.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry to hear about your loss.</p>

<p>If my Dad had died a year earlier I&#8217;d have said similar to you that I wasn&#8217;t close to him.  I had the advantage of being the youngest of his offspring.  This meant that I was the only one still at home when Dad retired (technically he retired early - truth is after 42 years in a job he loved and that frankly defined him as a useful human being Mrs Thatcher (bitch!) and John Nott unceremoniously kicked him and 10,000 other poor buggers on the scrap heap and made my home town suffer 25 years of deprivation).  His enforced unemployment coincided with a chunk of my last year at college and whilst I listened to ELP, Zep, Rush et al on my stereo in my room and desperately tried to revise enough to get my HND in Computer Studies I actually got to know Dad a fair bit.</p>

<p>Sadder then that just as I got to begin to know him and even admire him a bit a heart attack a couple of days after a hip replacement op that would have given him a new lease of life took him away.<br />
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			<title>looby [Member] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2014 09:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><span class="login user nowrap" rel="bubbletip_user_1"><span class="identity_link_username">looby</span></span> <span class="bUser-member-tag">[Member]</span></dc:creator>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Hello Daisy and Jo&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Yes &amp;#8211; I can&amp;#8217;t say I&amp;#8217;m looking forward to what will be a looney tunes religious service, then all into cars to the crematorium, then back to the House of God for drink-free &amp;#8220;nibbles&quot;. But I&amp;#8217;ll say what I can in as generous a mode as possible.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Trina&amp;#8217;s a lost cause. But she has her uses (not sexual any more though).&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Daisy and Jo</p>

<p>Yes &#8211; I can&#8217;t say I&#8217;m looking forward to what will be a looney tunes religious service, then all into cars to the crematorium, then back to the House of God for drink-free &#8220;nibbles". But I&#8217;ll say what I can in as generous a mode as possible.</p>

<p>Trina&#8217;s a lost cause. But she has her uses (not sexual any more though).</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title> Jo [Visitor] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2014 09:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><span class="user anonymous" rel="bubbletip_comment_3464">Jo</span> <span class="bUser-anonymous-tag">[Visitor]</span></dc:creator>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Sorry for your loss. I wasn&amp;#8217;t close to my father either when he died and that made getting through the funeral quite a tiring process. I hope that it will be easier for you.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;As for Trina, she needs to find a bit of self-respect. Her behaviour is forcing you into a position of treating her harshly.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry for your loss. I wasn&#8217;t close to my father either when he died and that made getting through the funeral quite a tiring process. I hope that it will be easier for you.</p>

<p>As for Trina, she needs to find a bit of self-respect. Her behaviour is forcing you into a position of treating her harshly.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>admin [Member] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2014 02:50:24 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Even if we don&amp;#8217;t like our parents, it&amp;#8217;s at the very least weird when they are no longer &amp;#8220;there&quot;.  When Dad died, the eulogy i delivered was fire and brimstone!  i was COMPELLED to tell his story.  When Mom died a few months back it was a performance&amp;#8230; i didn&amp;#8217;t lie, and chose my words carefully, but it had an element of &amp;#8216;bullshit&amp;#8217; to it that i don&amp;#8217;t regret&amp;#8230; It was for the benefit of others, not me.  i delivered&amp;#8230; and had a drink afterwards.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Hoping to hear that your Mum moves on, finds a new lease on life, and gets some joy along the way&amp;#8230;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even if we don&#8217;t like our parents, it&#8217;s at the very least weird when they are no longer &#8220;there".  When Dad died, the eulogy i delivered was fire and brimstone!  i was COMPELLED to tell his story.  When Mom died a few months back it was a performance&#8230; i didn&#8217;t lie, and chose my words carefully, but it had an element of &#8216;bullshit&#8217; to it that i don&#8217;t regret&#8230; It was for the benefit of others, not me.  i delivered&#8230; and had a drink afterwards.</p>

<p>Hoping to hear that your Mum moves on, finds a new lease on life, and gets some joy along the way&#8230;</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>looby [Member] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2014 21:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><span class="login user nowrap" rel="bubbletip_user_1"><span class="identity_link_username">looby</span></span> <span class="bUser-member-tag">[Member]</span></dc:creator>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks PW. I never told my Dad anything. Never went out with him, never told him anything about my life. To suggest going out together, or to have told him about anything about what I&amp;#8217;d done in my day, would have forced him into a situation he&amp;#8217;d have found frightening, not knowing how to respond.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks PW. I never told my Dad anything. Never went out with him, never told him anything about my life. To suggest going out together, or to have told him about anything about what I&#8217;d done in my day, would have forced him into a situation he&#8217;d have found frightening, not knowing how to respond.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title> PendleWitch [Visitor] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2014 21:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Can I add my condolences, although I didn&amp;#8217;t really grieve much for my dad either, silly old sod that he was. It&amp;#8217;s good to read your post and the comments and see that I&amp;#8217;m not the only one.  It took a while though before I stopped feeling a jolt when I saw something in the paper or on the telly and thought &amp;#8220;ooh, must tell Dad that&amp;#8221; and then realised I couldn&amp;#8217;t.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Hope your mum&amp;#8217;s still OK.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can I add my condolences, although I didn&#8217;t really grieve much for my dad either, silly old sod that he was. It&#8217;s good to read your post and the comments and see that I&#8217;m not the only one.  It took a while though before I stopped feeling a jolt when I saw something in the paper or on the telly and thought &#8220;ooh, must tell Dad that&#8221; and then realised I couldn&#8217;t.</p>

<p>Hope your mum&#8217;s still OK.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>looby [Member] in response to: Yea though I walk in the valley of disco</title>
			<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2014 15:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you. If we ever meet I&amp;#8217;d be interested to know about how the rest of your family reacted to you not turning up to your Dad&amp;#8217;s funeral. I also don&amp;#8217;t want people to have proxy feelings for me. It&amp;#8217;s a form of social control and an reflects an unwillingness to accept that people feel differently about things.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I &lt;i&gt;was&lt;/i&gt; harsh with Trina, and apologised. In a draft of this post, the paragraph about ringing Kirsty continues &amp;#8220;I then texted Trina. &amp;#8216;I&amp;#8217;m sorry about jumping down your throat in that email last night. You were only trying to be nice&amp;#8217;.&amp;#8221;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you. If we ever meet I&#8217;d be interested to know about how the rest of your family reacted to you not turning up to your Dad&#8217;s funeral. I also don&#8217;t want people to have proxy feelings for me. It&#8217;s a form of social control and an reflects an unwillingness to accept that people feel differently about things.</p>

<p>I <i>was</i> harsh with Trina, and apologised. In a draft of this post, the paragraph about ringing Kirsty continues &#8220;I then texted Trina. &#8216;I&#8217;m sorry about jumping down your throat in that email last night. You were only trying to be nice&#8217;.&#8221;<br /></p>]]></content:encoded>
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