Gay Nazi Sex Vicar in Schoolgirl Vice Knickers Disco Lawnmower Shock! - Latest Comments on Lost property https://loobynet.co.uk/?disp=comments en-GB http://backend.userland.com/rss 60 looby [Member] in response to: Lost property Sun, 22 Mar 2015 13:05:16 +0000 [Member] c3600@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>confused.com :)</p> confused.com :)

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3600 smallbeds [Visitor] in response to: Lost property Sun, 22 Mar 2015 10:09:33 +0000 smallbeds [Visitor] c3597@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>*reads your reply again* &#8230; everyone else, should I tell him?</p> *reads your reply again* … everyone else, should I tell him?

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3597 looby [Member] in response to: Lost property Wed, 11 Mar 2015 12:25:40 +0000 [Member] c3587@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Ah yes, I forgot the possibility that my constantly smouldering male sexuality, combined with the heady atmosphere of the loud music, the darkened room, and the pheronomoned air, might have turned him&#8230; giddy.</p> <p>No, me neither F &#8211; I just nod my head uncommittally and change the subject.</p> Ah yes, I forgot the possibility that my constantly smouldering male sexuality, combined with the heady atmosphere of the loud music, the darkened room, and the pheronomoned air, might have turned him… giddy.

No, me neither F – I just nod my head uncommittally and change the subject.

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3587 Suzy Southwold [Visitor] in response to: Lost property Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:18:58 +0000 Suzy Southwold [Visitor] c3586@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>I&#8217;ll lower the tone, shall I. Maybe he wants to bum you.</p> I’ll lower the tone, shall I. Maybe he wants to bum you.

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3586 furtheron [Visitor] in response to: Lost property Tue, 10 Mar 2015 15:35:39 +0000 furtheron [Visitor] c3585@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Compliments&#8230; yes&#8230; what are they really thinking? Hmmm?</p> Compliments… yes… what are they really thinking? Hmmm?

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3585 looby [Member] in response to: Lost property Tue, 10 Mar 2015 11:13:46 +0000 [Member] c3584@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Exile &#8211;<br /> Everyone&#8217;s been very tolerant about my errant night and has assured me not to be concerned about it. Perhaps I&#8217;m suffering from somethng I&#8217;m quick to criticise others for &#8211; imagining you&#8217;re more important to everyone than you are.</p> <p>SB &#8211;<br /> I always feel that such a generous compliment destroys the mystique of a friendship, in which such things should almost never be said. I feel I&#8217;ve got something to live up to now.</p> <p>Elwood is dead right though.</p> <p>DF &#8211;<br /> I think my friend was being genuine rather than manipulative, but yes, I am sometimes rather suspicious of compliments. I&#8217;d rather have constructive, practical criticism of my behaviour.<br /> <br /></p> Exile –
Everyone’s been very tolerant about my errant night and has assured me not to be concerned about it. Perhaps I’m suffering from somethng I’m quick to criticise others for – imagining you’re more important to everyone than you are.

SB –
I always feel that such a generous compliment destroys the mystique of a friendship, in which such things should almost never be said. I feel I’ve got something to live up to now.

Elwood is dead right though.

DF –
I think my friend was being genuine rather than manipulative, but yes, I am sometimes rather suspicious of compliments. I’d rather have constructive, practical criticism of my behaviour.

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3584 admin [Member] in response to: Lost property Tue, 10 Mar 2015 02:44:38 +0000 [Member] c3583@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Like EoPS, i have an internal mistrust of compliments - but rather than feel compliments come from a desire to be charitable, i believe they come from a desire to manipulate &#8211; they compliment me because they want something. This leads to mistrust and walls. i&#8217;m still pretty bad at this, but at least recognize my own wiring&#8230;</p> Like EoPS, i have an internal mistrust of compliments - but rather than feel compliments come from a desire to be charitable, i believe they come from a desire to manipulate – they compliment me because they want something. This leads to mistrust and walls. i’m still pretty bad at this, but at least recognize my own wiring…

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2015/03/09/lost-property#c3583 smallbeds [Visitor] in response to: Lost property Mon, 09 Mar 2015 16:45:04 +0000 smallbeds [Visitor] c3582@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>I honestly don&#8217;t know what to say about intellectual leagues that doesn&#8217;t sound patronising, but I really think it&#8217;s so much less important than people worry about. In Harvey, Elwood says at one point: &#8220;&#8216;In this world, Elwood, you must be oh, so smart; or oh, so pleasant.&#8217; Well, for years I was smart; I recommend pleasant.&#8221;</p> <p>The data point I always think of is the cleverest person I know, who also happens to be the clever person I know *of*, and I get the feeling that the company of clever people being terribly clever bores him rigid. Certainly he&#8217;s at his most genial - a real gentleman of the old school, but prone to black moods that have dogged his entire life - when he&#8217;s not in his most academic company.</p> <p>Being clever is a bit like being rich: above a certain point, it might get you further - in a career? in an argument? into the empyrean of abstract thought? - but I&#8217;ve never seen it make people happier, or more fun to be with.</p> I honestly don’t know what to say about intellectual leagues that doesn’t sound patronising, but I really think it’s so much less important than people worry about. In Harvey, Elwood says at one point: “‘In this world, Elwood, you must be oh, so smart; or oh, so pleasant.’ Well, for years I was smart; I recommend pleasant.”

The data point I always think of is the cleverest person I know, who also happens to be the clever person I know *of*, and I get the feeling that the company of clever people being terribly clever bores him rigid. Certainly he’s at his most genial - a real gentleman of the old school, but prone to black moods that have dogged his entire life - when he’s not in his most academic company.

Being clever is a bit like being rich: above a certain point, it might get you further - in a career? in an argument? into the empyrean of abstract thought? - but I’ve never seen it make people happier, or more fun to be with.

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