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looby [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 01:38:14 +0000

Thanks, I know how much you loved your dad and how much he’s in your head every day. The ones you really love never go away.

kono [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Sun, 07 Dec 2025 20:32:12 +0000

I’ve waited to respond on this one as i’ve lost two friends this year who took their own life… not as young as this woman but i don’t even know what one could say to a grieving mother as i don’t think there can be anything worse than losing your child… and like 63 i didn’t speak at my father’s memorial and i go back and forth on it… it was short and it’s forever in my head as well but i didn’t know if i’d even get the words out… i wouldn’t worry about it mate as sometimes being there is the best thing.

looby [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 20:34:58 +0000

Yes, those kind of acts almost of cowardice, stay in, and prey on, your mind.

I think the moment for contacting the girl’s family is passed now; I’ll just have to try to be less of a wimp next time.

63mago [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 22:23:36 +0000

I am sure that everyone carries a list of missed chances nicely tucked away in a dark corner of the memory. I have such a list, and in bad sleepless nights it is opened, by whom or what I do not know. I usually use an image of a crate in a kind of bunker where I bury that goddamn list again, sometimes it works fast, sometimes not so.
If you are seriously interested in expressing your condolences / feelings - you know the name of the girl. There should be a “Traueranzeige", a notice in a local paper. Here even the stingiest papers have the obits free for all. There should be an address.
If you can not reach out, it simply is so ; accept the inevitable, another little scratch.

(Still today, after soon twenty years, I could rip my arse off that I did not speak at the grave of one of my eldest friends, who died in his forties.
I simply could not, the fucking speech is stored for ever in my head. Maybe I’ll visit his grave some day, and then.)

looby [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 04:00:58 +0000

That’d be nice but I don’t know her address. I have thought about doing some digging on it though, seeing as there’s a lot of info on farce book.

Sally G [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 02:09:15 +0000

It’s always difficult. It’s a terribly sad situation. Not too late to send her a card and let her know you remember her dear daughter with fondness.

looby [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 18:35:30 +0000

I could have just introduced myself and told her how much I enjoyed working with a loveable and interesting young woman. I *curse* myself for not having been able to produce a gentlemanly and considerate comment to the mother at the time.

63mago [Visitor] in response to: Death in Bettws

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 17:51:49 +0000

22. Ach Herrgott …
Leaves one behind with nothing to say. What do you say to a mother who just buried her daughter, especially when the daughter took her own life ?