Gay Nazi Sex Vicar in Schoolgirl Vice Knickers Disco Lawnmower Shock! - Latest Comments on Disaster strikes https://loobynet.co.uk/?disp=comments en-GB http://backend.userland.com/rss 60 heybartender [Visitor] in response to: Disaster strikes Sun, 06 Nov 2011 23:55:30 +0000 heybartender [Visitor] c481@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>I&#8217;d apologize for finding this hilarious, but it does seem to have worked out for the best. My question for Homer: Where do you find the time? My god, I can barely keep up with my own messages, never mind bothering with his. My husband doesn&#8217;t even read my blog, though he could. We each have access to the other&#8217;s stuff, and neither of us bothers.</p> I’d apologize for finding this hilarious, but it does seem to have worked out for the best. My question for Homer: Where do you find the time? My god, I can barely keep up with my own messages, never mind bothering with his. My husband doesn’t even read my blog, though he could. We each have access to the other’s stuff, and neither of us bothers.

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c481 Furtheron [Visitor] in response to: Disaster strikes Tue, 01 Nov 2011 09:38:14 +0000 Furtheron [Visitor] c473@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>As Looby says - it is a choice that if it works for you then fine but I stand by the same thing that for me it is a line not to be crossed - I have nothing to hide - my wife can read any text on my phone and I expect I could do the same on hers but it is all about trust and respect for me. </p> <p>Different strokes for different folks and all that</p> As Looby says - it is a choice that if it works for you then fine but I stand by the same thing that for me it is a line not to be crossed - I have nothing to hide - my wife can read any text on my phone and I expect I could do the same on hers but it is all about trust and respect for me.

Different strokes for different folks and all that

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c473 looby [Member] in response to: Disaster strikes Tue, 01 Nov 2011 09:29:27 +0000 [Member] c472@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>No-one has a &#8220;right&#8221; to go poking around in other people&#8217;s communications. That&#8217;s not a right, that&#8217;s a demand you&#8217;ve made, to which J has acceded. If that&#8217;s a successful modus vivendi, then that&#8217;s OK I suppose. </p> <p>But I think most people would be outraged at such a request. I was shocked when Frances did that, and it ended the relationship. It would still have ended it if I had previously deleted all Denise&#8217;s texts, leaving only mundane ones to Kirsty about the children.</p> <p>And doesn&#8217;t it spoil the surprises a bit at Christmas and Birthdays?<br /></p> No-one has a “right” to go poking around in other people’s communications. That’s not a right, that’s a demand you’ve made, to which J has acceded. If that’s a successful modus vivendi, then that’s OK I suppose.

But I think most people would be outraged at such a request. I was shocked when Frances did that, and it ended the relationship. It would still have ended it if I had previously deleted all Denise’s texts, leaving only mundane ones to Kirsty about the children.

And doesn’t it spoil the surprises a bit at Christmas and Birthdays?

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c472 Homer [Visitor] in response to: Disaster strikes Mon, 31 Oct 2011 16:18:48 +0000 Homer [Visitor] c471@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Admittedly I do tend towards the &#8216;insanely jealous&#8217; end of the continuum, but I absolutely stand by my right to read my husband&#8217;s texts - as I would unquestioningly let him read mine - because at the end of the day the only people who object are those with something to hide. Oh, and Furtheron - I open all his post too, but that&#8217;s more in the role of secretary.</p> Admittedly I do tend towards the ‘insanely jealous’ end of the continuum, but I absolutely stand by my right to read my husband’s texts - as I would unquestioningly let him read mine - because at the end of the day the only people who object are those with something to hide. Oh, and Furtheron - I open all his post too, but that’s more in the role of secretary.

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c471 furtheron [Visitor] in response to: Disaster strikes Mon, 31 Oct 2011 13:07:25 +0000 furtheron [Visitor] c470@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>first thought - &#8220;you idiot!&#8221;<br /> Second thought - &#8220;well it cuts through a load of stuff and encourages an open and honest discussion&#8221;<br /> third thought - &#8220;good luck&#8221;</p> <p>Now - re Homer&#8217;s comment. I side with Looby on this. I never read my partner&#8217;s texts or open her mail - except by pure mistake as happened the other day - it was only a credit card bill but I couldn&#8217;t apologise more. It is not about trust but respect.</p> <p>Once her phone beeped right next to me when she was in the bath and I glanced at it. It was early morning and the text was from my son who lives away at uni. I quickly opened it fearing some hideous issue. It said he was on his way home. I told her. She tried to cover it up&#8230; it was all a surprise for me as I had a gig lined up the next day and he was going to surprise me by being there. It was still great but the surprise ruined &#8230; validated my old position. &#8220;If it isn&#8217;t addressed to me it isn&#8217;t my concern.&#8221;<br /> <br /></p> first thought - “you idiot!”
Second thought - “well it cuts through a load of stuff and encourages an open and honest discussion”
third thought - “good luck”

Now - re Homer’s comment. I side with Looby on this. I never read my partner’s texts or open her mail - except by pure mistake as happened the other day - it was only a credit card bill but I couldn’t apologise more. It is not about trust but respect.

Once her phone beeped right next to me when she was in the bath and I glanced at it. It was early morning and the text was from my son who lives away at uni. I quickly opened it fearing some hideous issue. It said he was on his way home. I told her. She tried to cover it up… it was all a surprise for me as I had a gig lined up the next day and he was going to surprise me by being there. It was still great but the surprise ruined … validated my old position. “If it isn’t addressed to me it isn’t my concern.”

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c470 looby [Member] in response to: Disaster strikes Mon, 31 Oct 2011 09:30:47 +0000 [Member] c469@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>TSB: Thank you. I&#8217;m pleased at how we&#8217;ve dealt with it and I am delighted to report that a heady text from her this morning indicates, amongst things which are not unsuitable for the driven-snow cleanliness of this blog, that I have received absolution.</p> <p>SB: There&#8217;s probably something out there to do that which would work on a more sophisticated phone but it&#8217;s a very old Nokia. It&#8217;s a tricky one because what was said passionately at midnight might not sound the same at 8am when she&#8217;s on the bus to work.<br /></p> TSB: Thank you. I’m pleased at how we’ve dealt with it and I am delighted to report that a heady text from her this morning indicates, amongst things which are not unsuitable for the driven-snow cleanliness of this blog, that I have received absolution.

SB: There’s probably something out there to do that which would work on a more sophisticated phone but it’s a very old Nokia. It’s a tricky one because what was said passionately at midnight might not sound the same at 8am when she’s on the bus to work.

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c469 TwistedScottishBastard [Visitor] in response to: Disaster strikes Mon, 31 Oct 2011 09:24:22 +0000 TwistedScottishBastard [Visitor] c468@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Third tme lucky.. I&#8217;ve already tried to put a comment in twice.</p> <p>You lucky yet surprisingly unlucky sod. How on earth do you have time to work on your thesis if your playing two at the same time? <br /> I&#8217;m surprised you&#8217;ve got enough strength left to even lift up a pen, yet alone any other sort of tool.<br /> Seriously though, I hope it works out. To quote the famous lines:<br /> &#8220;Greater love hath man for a woman which makes the world go around and diamonds are a girls best friend&#8221;</p> <p>I said I quoted the lines. I didn&#8217;t say it made any fucking sense. Or even the right bloody order.</p> <p>As quoted by Jane Goodsell:<br /> &#8220;<i>It is a known fact that men are practical, hardheaded realists, in contrast to women, who are romantic dreamers and actually believe that estrogenic skin cream must do something or they couldn&#8217;t charge sixteen dollars for that little tiny jar.<br /> <br /> As Yoda said:<br /> &#8220;<i>Known fact that men are practical, is it, hardheaded realists, to women in contrast, who are romantic dreamers and actually believe that estrogenic skin cream must do something or they could charge sixteen dollars for that little tiny jar not. &#8220;</i></i></p> Third tme lucky.. I’ve already tried to put a comment in twice.

You lucky yet surprisingly unlucky sod. How on earth do you have time to work on your thesis if your playing two at the same time?
I’m surprised you’ve got enough strength left to even lift up a pen, yet alone any other sort of tool.
Seriously though, I hope it works out. To quote the famous lines:
“Greater love hath man for a woman which makes the world go around and diamonds are a girls best friend”

I said I quoted the lines. I didn’t say it made any fucking sense. Or even the right bloody order.

As quoted by Jane Goodsell:
“It is a known fact that men are practical, hardheaded realists, in contrast to women, who are romantic dreamers and actually believe that estrogenic skin cream must do something or they couldn’t charge sixteen dollars for that little tiny jar.

As Yoda said:
“Known fact that men are practical, is it, hardheaded realists, to women in contrast, who are romantic dreamers and actually believe that estrogenic skin cream must do something or they could charge sixteen dollars for that little tiny jar not. “

]]> https://loobynet.co.uk/2011/10/30/disaster-strikes#c468 smallbeds [Visitor] in response to: Disaster strikes Mon, 31 Oct 2011 09:22:27 +0000 smallbeds [Visitor] c467@https://loobynet.co.uk/ <p>Oh, dear. Is there any chance of getting some sort of drinks-cornucopia lock on your phone?</p> Oh, dear. Is there any chance of getting some sort of drinks-cornucopia lock on your phone?

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