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Everybody wants the rainbow
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Each to their own, but you’ve got an incredibly negative view of marriage for someone who (I think) hasn’t had a horrible experience of it? I don’t think I’m unintelligent, but I really wanted to marry J, for the catharsis of having an entire day of telling him how much I loved him.
I do like how your friends did it though. We only had 22 guests and that was eight too many. Large weddings fill me with horror and dread.
Don’t think I agree with you on the marriage point of view… says the man who had to plan Saturday around buying Mrs F a present worthy or 27 years shackled to me - apparently it isn’t enough for a Nobel Prize, maybe when we get to 30 they’ll relent
Damn - read this too late - oh hangon which Euston - my office literally is on top of Euston station I look out over the entrance!
i like marriage - when it’s a choice and not a societal expectation. like any institution, i’ve seen lovely ones, and those that have been doomed from the start. to each his/her own…
enjoy the rainbow…
Well, I don’t get it. I think the idea that you say you publicly declare that you only want ever to go out with one person, from the age, (when most people do it), of about 20odd, is laughable optimism, and its failure rate betokens this. I accept it in way that good friends should of each others’ choices whilst just agreeing not uselessly to talk about it.
H: Why do you need a special day to tell someone you love him?
F: Only one Euston surely? Unless you mean Euston Square?
D: I think the boundaries between choice and societal expectation are far too blurred ever to give anyone justifiable confidence in ascribing an action to one or the other.
Rainbow was great… a description of its colours (groan!) will follow shortly.
I suppose I feel the same about drugs the way you do about marriage, and neither of us would ever convince the other.
To answer your question though, it’s more that on your wedding day you get so say it ad infinitum in front of everyone who means something to you, and the UK legal system. And I didn’t go down the church route, so I don’t recall choosing to say anything about “til death us do part".
To be fair I didn’t believe in marriage either until I met J, the way it’s going with Trina maybe I’ll be hurtling up the M6 in a years time to your nuptials!
Well if we do I’ll make sure I save a little bit of amphetamine for you to try :)
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