Fri 22nd March 2013

Trina's just sent me an email.

Subject: I just want

To be with you all the time.

I don't. Fuck that--I like being by myself.

I think in the long run this'll be the cause of us splitting up. I wish I could meet someone like Kim, who likes dancing, is a druggie and a drinker, who fucks more than one bloke at the same time (literally, at the same time), but who sleeps in the same bed as me when she's here. Very difficult when you're 48 and live in a city where the women are generally boring, can't drink, married, career, car, timid, dull, and can't/won't dress because that's a vulgar debasement, an unseemly attention to a shallowness.

This post has been brought to you by Rosie's Perfect Pear Perry, from Dafarn Dywyrch, Llandegla (7.5%). Me and Trina will stay together and get over it, probably, for a bit.

6 comments

Comment from: [Member]

Time for some drama! Do we get to vote? Will you auction off life-changing decisions?

Fri 22nd March 2013 @ 07:39

Comment from: [Member]

Fuck me that was quick! No idea what will happen, at the moment.

Fri 22nd March 2013 @ 07:39

Comment from: isabelle [Visitor]

Just try and see it as a compliment rather than a noose… and well, be honest with her, I’m sure that’s one of the things she loves about you.

(I am saving myself drink-wise - beer festival this weekend, I’m sure you’d approve ! )

Fri 22nd March 2013 @ 11:49

Comment from: [Member]

It might be a compliment but it highlights a basic difference in how we see our future and makes me think it won’t work in the long term.

The beer festival–wish I could be there with you!

Fri 22nd March 2013 @ 12:47

Comment from: [Member]

my primary companion and i discussed this topic yesterday - about us, not you and Trina. it is far easier for me to find gentlemen who are comfortable with the open arrangements than it is for him to find women that do not wish to be exclusively paired. this is also the main reason i don’t have a girlfriend, too. you think it’s tough to find a straight woman who is comfortable with ethical non-monogamy? try to find a lesbian wired that way!

Sun 24th March 2013 @ 10:35

Comment from: [Member]

Oh you have my sympathies! It’s difficult enough, without elminating 90% of the candidates.

Fri 29th March 2013 @ 06:56

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