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Men don’t think about The Relationship very much. We never do. We’re not hardwired the same way as girlies. We’re not a chick lit novel.
If you’re looking for an opinion (and why would you blog if you weren’t?) I’d say you should just leave her alone. She’s in for a dreary summer. Don’t make it worse for her.
I’ve been carrying on a flirtation with someone much, much younger on the other side of the planet. Long, salacious messages. She was liberal with photos. She sent a note this morning saying she found a fella. I’m happy for her but am surprised at how taken aback I am. So we both got our notes. What was coming. What we deserved.
Yeah I quite fancy Nursemyra too :)
Seriously though…Not you as well!? What are the chances of that? Sorry to hear that UB, even though, like me and Trina, there sounds something inevitable about it. Glad you enjoyed it while it lasted though.
I’ll have to contact her just for a couple of practical things. She’s left her coat here and I need to know what we’re going to do about Strasbourg, which is all paid for. I would actually like to go with Kim TBH. I’d ask Kitty or Erica but it’s in term time. If all else fails I’ll go on me tod.
Tomorrow the postcard that I sent her from Pity Me will arrive.
TBH this has been on the cards for a while hasn’t it?
I’m with UB leave her alone and try and move on.
You’re right my friend–we’ve been pushed into making a decision, and it’s the right one. She’s just been round for her lunch. It was amicable. We’ve decided to stay friends and still go to Strasbourg and do the other things that we’d arranged.
“Just friends” until the next time you get drunk together and end having a “Why not” fuck, then Trina thinks you’re in a relationship again…
I hope I’m wrong of course,
Well, part of the arrangement we’ve agreed on is a no sex policy, because that would confuse the issue.
Oh, that’s tough; but yes, I think a lot of us (yourself included) could see it coming. Good luck with that “no sex policy", mind you.
Hoping the ‘no sex’ friendship works out, and that you can still enjoy time together. She needs something you can’t give - best to let her move onward.
Yes–it’s been on the cards for a bit. There have been developments though! (Will post as soon as I can).
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