Shadowed

Thought you kicked the bucket.

Hello 63mago. I must correct your absence on my right hand side :)

I managed to break my site and I’m not knowledgeable enough to repair it so was reliant on someone else helping me.

Greetings from a miserable wet London (where I’m at work). Nice to see you again.

You’re difficult to keep up with but always worth hunting down. Thanks for leaving a comment over at my place. I don’t know if I’d have seen this post otherwise. Someone left a comment asking about your whereabouts. A nation of fans await you.

I, too, think this can all be repaired in good time. But you have to give them some space for the time being. Were you looking for advice? I’m not sure.

Since i smoke copious amounts of ganja i’ll offer this stoner wisdom(?) This living thing is like a river, always moving, forever malleable, this raft you sit upon in the middle of this river, a river that is sometimes tranquil, sometimes raging, there are people with you, sometimes on the raft, sometimes on the shore waving, some may fall off (in both tranquil and raging waters) never to be seen again, some fall off and show up in the most unexpected places, but the main thing is to learn how to drive that raft, to navigate the river with the least amount of damage and the maximum amount of goodwill and love, that is what we can strive for… told you i smoke too much gear ;) now i gotta make the boyos breakfast…

Thank you Exile. I know I don’t make it easy so thank you for your persistence.

I’m always looking for advice. I’m incompetent in many areas of life and need more level heads to tell me what would be the best thing to do. Your advice concurs with that of Kim, who is a woman who talks sense and doesn’t hold back.

kono – I would hate to lose Kitty and Wendy from my liferaft. I really really don’t want to push them overboard but if I don’t get a grip on my drinking I will.

I like your segue from stoner to parental breakfast maker.

Like the others, i was a bit worried - but am glad that you are still on the topside of that raft. Seems that the calmness of your current rooming arrangement - even if the cat is lame with the magic tricks - can provide a good foundation for your rebalancing act. Work. Eat. Sleep. You master those three things as a start, and you’ll be in a better position to tackle the hardstuff. i agree with the others - be patient with Wendy and Kitty. Give it time. Focus on Work, Eat, Sleep for now…

I’m glad you’re here.

Thank you daisyfae. Certainly doing the work and sleep thing. Diet could do with a bit of improvement and the house is a big step forward. Maslow’s lower levels are being ticked off slowly.

Things have inched forward with Kitty and Wendy. More on that story soon :)

Looby- glad you’re still out there. I did keep up intermittently with the since-May stuff on the sub-site thingy (found it somehow!), but this here Gay Nazi Sex Vicar Lawnmower place is Loobynet’s natural home for me and always will be.

Damn shame about the stuff with the Lancaster girls.. as for any words of wisdom, I think it’s all been said up there, not least by yourself! Keep on top of those various fundamental things, as best you can (sure there’ll be the odd blip, we’re only damn human!) and you’ll start climbing up Maslow’s ladder like a resurgent Stockport County in pursuance of a National League North play-off spot, you’ll see.

Hiya J — sorry it’s taken me so long to see this comment. I must check the notification settings. Thank you very much for dropping in.

National League North? I’m aiming at the Bananarama level!